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I grew up and lived by the sea in East Kent, which I loved.

My NET story begins, as for many others, with awful diarrhoea for many years. Visits to GPs always resulted in an IBS diagnosis and a hospital appointment put it down to stress, but I wasn’t stressed, just concerned about my situation.

I suddenly lost a lot of weight and experienced anxiety and flushing, and found a large lump under my skin that I could feel around my solar plexus area. I went to see my GP and saw a locum. I wasn’t happy with her lack of interest and made another appointment. My GP was annoyed, saying that I’d already been seen and the lump was muscle where I’d lost weight. Next stop was A&E, where the doctor was very concerned, but they couldn’t give me a CT scan as there was nobody there to operate it. We then decided to go to the Chaucer Private Hospital and pay for a colonoscopy and scan. At our next appointment with the consultant, he gaily told me I’d got Crohn’s disease.

By this time, I was in a lot of pain, especially when I tried to eat and was being sick too. I felt completely lost.

Following a bad fall, I was taken to Ashford Hospital, where they found I had damaged my liver and was transferred to Kings Hospital London. The second day there, I went to the toilet and passed lots of blood clots. I can remember walking back towards my bed with a nurse and then nothing more till I woke up in the ICU with an ileostomy. They had removed my ischaemic small intestine; the tumour had grown around it, cutting off the blood supply. I was told that during the long operation, I had a carcinoid crisis. This was in February 2015.

I was on TPN for 16 hours a day. I didn’t know anything about NET cancer. The NET consultant and senior NET nurse came to see me briefly before going to Italy for two weeks for a conference. They gave me a folder with a zebra on it, but at the time, I felt too unwell to read it. The liver consultant moved me into the liver ward, which didn’t help with finding out about intestinal failure and NETs, especially when the Senior NET nurse was told I’d left when she came back to see me. I hadn’t left, I was still there.

Being on a liver ward, my needs weren’t what the nurses were used to, and it was a difficult time in many ways. One of the nutrition nurses told Andrew about this special ward in Southampton Hospital, specialising in intestinal failure. I was then told I was going to be sent back to Kent, to Margate Hospital, as that was my local hospital. I’d been in Kings for two months and was desperate to leave, but not to Margate Hospital, where they knew nothing about NETs. I asked to go to Southampton Hospital instead and was told,” You have a week to find somewhere to live and register with a GP in the Southampton area, or you go back to Margate.”  I made a frantic phone call to Andrew and told him what was needed, and he managed to do it!

When I arrived in Southampton, the atmosphere in F11 was so different to King’s, I immediately felt safe and relaxed, everyone was kind and friendly. I eventually left the hospital on 18th May and met Neil Pearce in the clinic, where he filled us in on details of the operation I’d had and about NET cancer. I had TPN at home and lanreotide injections.

About a year later, Neil Pearce told us they’d looked at the CT scan again, and I had just enough intestine left for a reversal. This happened, getting rid of my stoma, stopping TPN and being able to eat normally again. It took about a year for my bowels to start behaving normally, but life was good. I still have small tumours in my pelvis and spine, but as they are so slow-growing, they are not a problem.

Although I left behind friends of over 40 years, it was an easy decision to move to Southampton and the quality of life I have now is due to the excellent care I’ve received over the last 10 years. Another bonus is that my son and family live nearby in North Baddesley, and I’ve had the pleasure of seeing my grandsons grow up.

PS Letter to GP in Ramsgate:

On 10th November 2015, NET cancer day, I wrote to my old GP in Ramsgate and told him everything that had happened since leaving my last appointment with him. I told him it wasn’t a complaint, I just wanted him to be aware of the symptoms of NET cancer. A few weeks later, I got a letter back to say that the doctors had had a meeting to discuss my letter and to find out about NET cancer. The outcome was that they were going to do the 24-hour urine test on all their patients with long-term diarrhoea.

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